MOTHERS DAY OH BOY!

As mother's day coming very soon, I notice the husband has to choose celebrating us on mother's day or there mother's. I asked my husband that I do not want to celebrate mother's day and don't want to dress up and take the baby out on a crowded restaurant and stress out. I rather stay home and eat what I love n drink. I personally want to do nothing on that day. If his mom's wants to do something he can go and spend time with her but I'm a mom too. Am I wrong to ask to just stay home with my little family. I respect her but even my own mother's respect why I'm staying home and she is home alone since my father passed away. I love my mom but sometimes in a year I don't want to celebrate.

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You are now his immediate family and anyone outside of that even parents and siblings are extended family. You are not wrong to want to stay home, anything for you to enjoy your day where you should definitely come first

@Tiffany thank you let's hope she understand my hope my husband sticks to my decision.

Everybody got mad at me cuz I chose to do a craft show that day. 🤷 It's my mother's day and if I want to work let me lol

No, you are not wrong.

@natasha it's your day. You can spend it how ever you want. It's funny on father's day they can go fiahing alone or stay home n be in the garage n for on the car bit as a mother we can't have our alone time or do what we want alone?

You’re the mom. And it’s your day. Do what you want. Last year all my husband did was let me be, he drew me a bath n made sure I ate. He knows I have a weird thing against Mother’s Day but still wants to celebrate me as a mom. He does it by supporting what I want to do. He’d love to get me flowers n nice dinner n a nice gift, but that’s not me. M he respects it.

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