Am i wrong for being upset with my husband?

um yeah girl, he’s weird for that. why could he possibly need to be the one keeping her company until 3am?? while you’re pregnant and with a toddler in a whole different hotel? that’s very disrespectful in my opinion and you have every right to be upset. whether anything happened or not, it’s just disrespectful towards you that he’s even entertaining something like that

This would weird me out too. Why would he feel obligated to keep her company? Just doesn’t sound like a smart decision or appropriate for a married man even if it were innocent.

100% very strange my husband would never even consider doing that. Also I find it very weird you didnt get to stay in the hotel with him. My company flies us out once a year to a VERY expensive hotel and my colleagues pay for their spouses tickets out of pocket but they stay in the same hotel they just obviously don't come to the company events. Why would he think this is okay? Even if God willing nothing happened how could you trust that? My husband would never even be alone with a woman he/I knows because he finds it disrespectful and inappropriate

I don’t want you to worry because it’s not good for the baby. But I don’t think you’re wrong for being upset…. I would honestly be livid. And he wouldn’t be out with his buddies tonight if that was the case honestly…. But I tend to jump to angry pretty quick when it comes to things like that. I wouldn’t be able to handle a guy doing something like that. I don’t think he would have told you about any of that if something was intentionally bad or if anything happened. But it feels like it’s crossing on the lines of emotional cheating. Can I ask why they won’t let you stay with your husband in his hotel room with him? My husband and I travel a lot for work and if the company is paying for my room they would not care if I brought my husband along and he stayed with me. They pay for the room either way and it’s accommodating my family so that I can accommodate their need for me to be on the road. Not trying to make you more upset or worried but it’s definitely worth discussing with him.

@Nichole We couldn’t afford a hotel room at the hotel he is staying at out of pocket.. & i can 100% confirm that he has to share a room with a guy in his company’s region so i couldn’t stay with him in his hotel room. But i 100% agree with you on everything else!

@Rita We couldn’t afford a hotel room at the hotel he is staying at out of pocket.. & i can 100% confirm that he has to share a room with a guy in his company’s region so i couldn’t stay with him in his hotel room. But i 100% agree with you on everything else!

Ummmmmmm… girl first why didn’t yall just stay in the same hotel room? Second why would he be hanging out with a woman let along a random woman until 3am… a beach walk and drinks sounds romantic. I would be concerned Oh okay i see about the room but everything else is weird..

Ah okay. I didn't know they made him share rooms but I mean couldn't he just stay in your hotel room? As long as he got to wherever he needed to be on time... still very inappropriate to be with a woman alone drinking on the beach until 3am

Super sketch for him to be out with some chick keeping her company that late. It's extremely disrespectful whether he did something or not. Even if you weren't there, it would still be disrespectful for him to be out like that. If it was with his friends or colleagues I might would give him a pass but not for being out with some chick walking on the beach...

I don’t understand your set up. Why is he not checking in at his hotel (for company purposes) but actually spending the night with you guys?… I mean if he can stay out until 3am he could clearly sleep somewhere else. Who is controlling that? Also not sure why you would agree to go and stay somewhere else for him to come around for just a couple of hours and prefer to spend time with co-workers. It’s either a business trip in which he has no time for family or a relaxed event where he takes you along to spend time with you… The 3am beach walk it’s just more noise on top of a strange set up…

@Ana The whole purpose of me going on the trip is it is more than 3 hours from our home. i am pregnant and if something were to happen i would have no one to help me get to a hospital or to watch my 2 year old child we also have. & as far as the business trip… he did have a work event to go to this morning that i could not attend but right after came and spent time with his family at the beach because he had the rest of the day for himself.

& like i said in the post i can’t go to the bars or anything like that because i do have my two year old with me.. there are things i was invited to do that i chose not to because i am very pregnant and uncomfortable and running after a 2 year old on top of that is extremely exhausting.

I get that. It’s not an easy one. I still don’t understand why he doesn’t sleep with his family 5min away from the event. Or maybe why he didn’t pass on this one due to you being pregnant and not being able to manage an eventuality independently. For reference, my husband travels abroad often for work so I do have perspective of what you’re saying.

@Ana His work trips are mandatory to keep his job, he is only allowed to miss them if i go in labor and there is proof, if he is in the hospital, or if our children are sick. His job literally asks for Doctors documentation if he misses.

I get the hotel situation cause my husband travels for work and he shares a room with his co worker so he can’t be with me. I mean he can technically go sleep with me but will leave me at 4 am so I rather him stay with co worker. So definitely get you with that. But that walking on the beach bullshit. My opinion, he must of been into her if 1. He didn’t want to leave while the co workers did. 2. Walking the beach at 2-3 am. Come on, let’s be real ladies, if we are walking the beach with someone, we have interest. I don’t want to stress you out and maybe I’m being dramatic to other people but you got me fucked up lmao I would definitely be upset and let him know thats going to be the last that happen. And honestly needs to gain your trust.

You are definitely not wrong for being upset. As a married man he should not be keeping other women that he does not know company at all what so ever! I would over worry about it because of the baby but I would address it. And let him know how you feel about it .

You're not in the wrong here. That's awfully shady sounding to me, and probably something that should be addressed.