Traveling in a Plane

So my baby daddy and i are not together and he wants to take my daughter in a plane to Washington from Arizona for 4 days in July (she will be about 6 months old) whats everyones thoughts on this? my immediate thought was F*CK NO but is that irrational? I dont want it to come back n bite me in the ass but i also dont feel okay with her being so far away so young.

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If she’s formula fed and she does well with him and he is 1000 percent responsible I’d let my baby go. His message is very respectful.

If you know he wouldn’t hurt her set out your personal feelings aside and let him take little miss. Make sure he is ok with you video chatting her as much as you need to help with the missing her. Also make your own plans from self care to getting stuff you need done.

Honestly I have trust issues because my babies dad tried to have his family call cps on me to get full custody!! But up to you girl !! you can text me if you want to talk

I think it depends how used she is to being with her dad. If he’s used to taking care of her and she’s happy when she’s with him (without you) then I would consider letting her go. But ultimately it is your call.

I agree with everyone that his text is very respectful and sounds like she would be safe with him. HOWEVER, "9 months in, 9 months out." Separation anxiety is real. The baby might feel it and even if not, mothers feel it and that's real. So it's totally up to you but I don't think I could do it this young. I personally would lose my mind lol

Are you breastfeeding your babe? If so, I wouldn’t depending on how well established your supply is with them. There is an initiative called milk stork that will fedex your milk anywhere in the world.

I would let him take her if he is trustworthy

Mmm no, she's too young. If it was a day trip fine, or if she was at least 1, but this young I woolsnt feel comfortable

If it was me I’d say no sorry. 6months is too young for being away from her mom no matter what.

No too young try again when baby is 1 years old and I would be worrying the entire time they're so fragile

I’d be wanting to go with them.. (but stay at hotel and not go see any of his family) So she can still enjoy his family but be comfortable knowing she gets to still see her mommy daily or sleep with mom at night. It sounds easy to just say yes but I know I wouldn’t be Able to do this yet. But it kinda sounds like you guys already have specific days with Josie?

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