Mom and BD
My BD and i haven’t been in contact due to him being verbally abusive and disrespectful over and over. His mom reached out to me to talk about the baby and him, she claims, and I’m thinking it’s bc i told him i wouldn’t put him on the birth certificate. She’s never reached out to me before and i don’t want to be rude but I’m also like my due date is literally in 10 days? Why now? Why get involved now, at the end of my pregnancy and want to talk about it now. And she’s had all boys so i feel like she’s just going to think I’m an asshole for not putting him on the birth certificate or something and I’m just like idk how to go about it bc i don’t want it to seem like I’m talking shit about her son but it’s like .. lady these are the facts of why I’m not doing so! Idk do yall have any tips or been in this situation
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If he was abusive and you haven’t been in contact, you don’t have any obligation to put him on the birth certificate. He will have to prove his paternity (if he chooses to) to be able to be involved in your baby’s life. Do what you think is best for you and your little one!
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Honestly don’t do it if he is in any way abusive or controlling, block it all out and focus on delivering your little one safely! Stick to what you feel is right deep down no matter what, I’ve heard so many woman regret putting their baby dad on the birth certificate! Some people can’t even take their kiddos on holiday because the baby dad won’t let them & it’s so sad! X