Help🙄

Like he has some issues

Just start doing what he’s doing or get pleasure somewhere else because in my opinion that’s unfair and wrong

ouch, that’s hurtful

Like you are no longer his desire, you have lost a connection some where and either need to rekindle it or move on

Like he’d rather touch himself then me and that just gives me ick vibes me and my partner set rules in place with toys and self pleasure we do not do it alone only with each other or help each other just for this exact reason. They do it and you feel like you need pleasure and find out they did it themselves and it makes you feel less valued. So yeah I’d be pissed.

I think this can be common in relationships that have become ‘room mate’ vibes. It’s a lack of intimacy. I think explaining why it hurts, you wanna connect and it’s not just about the sex

Girl I'd be pissed TF off I already addressed that years ago and he hasn't sense because of u gonna get off by ur self then be single is how I see it but everyone is different but in my opinion it's close to cheating but that's me tho

Talk to him and tell him

Maybe he’s insecure about his sex performance?.. have you had conversations like this in the past?

It’s not always that they are unattracted .. speaking from experience. I felt that way before with my spouse and I just used the vibrator.. there was a time where he said something jokingly about my body but it wasn’t funny for me.. and it lingered on out and I just stopped having sex with him. Once he found out about the vibrator .. we spoke about it and he made a safe space for me again.

I think maybe he struggles with intimacy and has addiction