Freaking out!!! 😭😡

I literally have the WORST anxiety ever due to personal reasons. So I’m terrified of like anyone’s face going near my babies. Just like any mother but I literally go into meltdown down and my partners uncle kissed my baby on the lips!!!! What the hell do I do!!! I wiped her mouth like straight after! I went mad at him! He didn’t have any cold sores and he said he don’t get them but I’m literally on melt down I feel sick to my stomach. Then I got people telling me it was only once she’ll be fine! It only takes that one time!!!!!! Could absolutely scream and cry!! Will she be ok? I feel like I’m losing my mind. I’m so furious!!!!!!!

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Super sorry! I’m also learning to be firm and put my foot down. People just don’t seem to get it at all. We just have to explain that we’re not completely comfortable with others holding them just yet. Eventually they’ll stop asking and leave us alone.

Like why do people think it’s acceptable?? I just couldn’t I don’t even kiss her lips myself and she’s my daughter!!!

I had the same with MIL and grandMIL I had to get my partner to be firm with them and tell them to stop, I felt so bad since it wasn’t my family and I couldn’t say it myself. Everyone said when I have a baby it’s natural to stand your ground with them but I just couldn’t

@Sarah it’s so annoying! I didn’t even get chance to say he just picked her up and did it so I went mad!!! I just hope she’ll be ok! Why do people think they can just kiss babies that aren’t there’s??? Baffles me

I agree, my MIL kept picking her up and saying can I kiss her yet whilst kissing her, I kept using the ‘shes not jabbed yet sorry’ but after she was jabbed it was hard since I still didn’t want anyone to do it. My partner spoke to them at least 3 times before they finally stopped

Just have to be firm and you and your partner need to be on same terms

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